Dear Pastor,

I have been dating this guy, and I recently found out that he is married. I really love him, but I feel disappointed and betrayed. He has been lying to me for over a year. I am 50. I am way too old to be a side chick. I am kindly asking for your advice.

Betrayed

Dear Betrayed,

It has taken you a long time to find out the truth about this man. Don't condemn yourself. Liar is the first, second, and third name of some men. They take pleasure in fooling women by lying to them. Give God thanks that eventually you found out the truth. If it is God's will for you to get a man, he will provide one who is truthful and honest. Pray about this matter.

I wish you well.

Pastor