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October 15, 2015
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Three weeks later he wants to come back home

Dear Pastor,

I am 31 years old and I am a nurse. I am a Jamaican by birth. I have been married twice. My first husband and I have two children. He is a Jamaican. I got involved with another man who is an American. Whenever we get into arguments, he tells me how his friends say how bad Jamaican women are. I tell him yes and that's because we don't stand for foolishness.

One night, he went out and when he came back, he was using expletives. He was so loud that one of the children woke up. I told him to go. I threatened to call the police, so he left. When he came back, he told me that he would take his things and leave because he wanted some space. He was away for three weeks and he called me and told me that he wanted to come back. He is not willing to go and see a counsellor.

Do you think that I should take him back?

V.P.

Dear V.P.

Wherever this man is, let him stay. No one should come to your house and be disrespectful to you. Any man who is always willing to attack or say negative things about Jamaican women has passed his place. He needs to get lost and no one should find him. Take your time, darling, you will find a different man. There are good men out there. Some folks say that they are hard to find, but nothing good comes easy.

Pastor

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