Dear Pastor,

I am a long-time reader of your column. I am a young married woman. My husband and I also listen to your show.

My husband comes home from work early enough to try to listen to the show from the start. He imitates you.

Whenever we have a disagreement, he imitates you and tells me how you would have solved the problem. Sometimes I tell him, no, that is not what you would have said. I correct him.

My husband had a daughter before we got married. We do not have any children as yet. I wonder if i were to become pregnant if my husband would continue to be so nice to me. Every Saturday he goes to the market for me. When he gets back, he helps me to wash. My neighbours are jealous of me. He said he would never cheat on me. I believe him. His father cheated on his mother and got another woman pregnant. It affected his mother. She almost lost her mind. His father sent the mother and child to America and his mother forgave him.

I would like to have three children. My husband only wants two, a boy and a girl. We are working and saving to buy a house.

O.P

Dear O.P.,

I wish your husband and yourself well. I am glad you read my column and enjoy listening to the 'Dear Pastor Show'. You have a helpful husband. Lots of women would love to have husbands who go to the market on Saturdays and do house chores. I hope he will not change. May the Good Lord bless you both. Continue to respect each other.

Pastor