Dear Pastor,

I am living in Montego Bay. I do not get to see my boyfriend often. That has caused me to get involved with another man.

I told him about my boyfriend and he said I should leave him. I told him I can't leave him because he takes care of my two children. He also helps to pay for my mother's medication. My mother is not well.

The first time I had sex with my lover he used a condom. The second time he did not use any and now I am pregnant. He is glad, but I am not. I don't want to keep this baby. It is only nature that caused me to get carried away. I don't love him as much as I love my boyfriend. Pastor, I don't know what to do. Please give me advice.

S.N.

Dear S.N.,

I cannot encourage you to have an abortion. If you did not want to get pregnant, you should not have had sex. You should have insisted that he use a condom. You are really careless. You are in trouble because you lack common sense.

You are fortunate to have a man who is assisting you financially, yet you are cheating.

I cannot support anyone who carelessly has sex, gets pregnant and wants to terminate the pregnancy.

Pastor