Dear Pastor,

I am living with a man for over four years. I trusted him, so I told him everything about my past. One day he and I had a disagreement and he cursed me and told me everything that I told him about my past. Do you think this is a good man?

D.B

Dear D.B.,

This is not a good man and I have said on numerous occasions that a woman should not tell a man everything about her past. Neither should a man tell a woman everything about his past. It is very unwise to do so. The past cannot be undone and one must put the past behind him/her and move on.

Pastor