Dear Pastor,

I have a girlfriend. Last week, I gave her $10,000, and today, she asked me to lend her $20,000. She does not want to say what she is going to do with it. Pastor, when she is talking about money, it is 10 and 20,000 dollars she is always talking about. What do you think I should do?

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Dear ...,

I am going to tell you exactly what you should do with this woman. End the relationship with her right away. She is a gold-digger. You would be a fool to continue with her. She has one aim and that is to get as much money as she can from you. Run from this woman. Don't give her another cent. She is asking you for a loan, but she has no intention of paying that back.

Pastor