Dear Pastor,

I have been with this man for four years. Sometimes I feel to give up but, Pastor, he is the only man in my life.

I love him so much. I have a child with him and he has a son with another woman. Sometimes I don't know what to do.

I can't do without him. My love is with him. Other men like me but I told them I have someone. They are telling me to share.

Pastor, I love this man too much to hurt him.

K.A.

Dear K.A.,

Men tell you to be with them but you are not in the sharing business.

These guys shouldn't be encouraging you to be unfaithful to your man. You should tell them that you don't share your 'goods'.

I don't understand why you feel like giving up sometimes. What has this man been doing that is causing you to feel fed up?

Is he not a good man? Yes, he is. He is the only man you really love. Therefore, I urge you to stick with your man. Couples disagree from time to time in every relationship.

If you feel stressed, suggest to your boyfriend seeing a family counsellor.

Pastor