Dear Pastor,

I am a 60-year-old man and I am married for 15 years. My wife and I still enjoy watching porn. It is a part of our enjoyment. We have our set in our room and when we close our door at nights, we do whatever we want to do and we enjoy each other.

I have a friend who lives in America and he came to stay with us with his wife and we told them that they could join us to watch porn. His wife said she was a Christian so she didn't want to look at these things. We coaxed her into watching the first one and we noticed her loosening up and laughing. We were so surprised. She asked us to show her more. My wife said to me, "All hell is going to break loose now when they go into their room".

Porn is not for children but it is a part of our adult entertainment. Some people like to criticise those who like to look at porn, but we see nothing wrong with it. What do you say, pastor?

N.R

Dear N.R.,

Your wife and yourself are quite comfortable in looking at pornographic films. Some people would indeed condemn you and say these are not good movies to look at, regardless of one's age. I am not here to condemn you. However, I would not encourage anyone to have as part of their entertainment diet pornographic movies because porn promotes sexual promiscuity and immoral behaviour.

Pastor