Dear Pastor,

At times, wives have to back away from insisting that their husbands have sex with them because the men complain that they are so very tired. It is such a big turn-off for me because there are so many sex positions I would like to try, but my husband is unable to keep up with me. He has a nice-size penis but he does not know how to use it.

Disappointed Wife

Dear Disappointed Wife,

I suggest that you allow your husband to sleep and after he has rested you encourage him to have sex with you. Evidently, he is a hard-working man so he needs time to rest, so go easy on him. Perhaps you are much younger than your husband, but if you work with him he should be able to do the positions you would like to try.

So I repeat, take time with your husband. Don't be rough on him.

Pastor