I am writing to you to seek your opinion. I am interested in a girl and I asked her out on a date. She agreed to go with me but told me that after the date I will have to sleep with her, not at her place but at mine. That surprised me because she is a 'stush' girl, so I wondered why she would want to come to my house and sleep with me after one date. I also asked myself why she didn't invite me to come to her apartment, because she lives alone. I suggested going to her place but she turned me down and said if she can't come to my house, the date is off.

Pastor, I am living with my girlfriend and I am wondering who told her about my girlfriend. I tried to call her but she refuses to take my calls. She sent me a message saying that she is not interested. What do you think happen?

E.K.

Dear E.K.,

It seems to me that this woman knows about you more than you think. Evidently, she checked you out and found out that you are living with a woman. By insisting that she sleeps with you at your house after the date was a clever way of denying you a date, and to let you know she is not interested. I suggest, therefore, that you stick with the woman you have at home.

Pastor