Dear Pastor,

I am having a problem. I am pregnant and I am not sure who got me pregnant because I had sex with two different men. I was in need of help to buy things for graduation and time was running out. This guy asked me for sex and promised to give me everything for graduation. I agreed to have sex with him in his car. When we were finished having sex, I told him how much it would be. He told me he did not have all the money. I told him to give me what he could afford, so he gave me and I was able to buy some of the things that I needed. I was also able to pay to get my hair done. However, it was not enough to buy a pair of shoes.

I saw the type of shoe that I wanted, so I had sex with another guy to get it. Before we had sex, I told him what the shoes cost and he gave it to me. He even added a little extra. He told me he'd like to see me after graduation but It never happened because the other guy came to the graduation. We went out and had sex a second time.

Now I am pregnant but don't know which of these men is the father. Please tell me what to do. I am not keeping this baby because I don't know who got me pregnant.

J.K.

Dear J.K.,

You sold yourself to get the necessary things for graduation. You were so eager to get money that you never thought of protecting yourself from pregnancy or diseases. The men with whom you had sex might have enjoyed it. To them it was fun. To you it was a job - something to do to get the things you needed for graduation. What a careless, young woman you are.

I am not prepared to condemn you, but I will hope that you would not terminate the pregnancy. I don't know what you are going to tell these two men but after your child is born, do a DNA test to determine who the father is.

Pastor