Dear Pastor,

I want to congratulate you for the way you minister to our people. Some of them are downright pathetic. May God continue to bless you with the correct advice.

I have an unusual request. I am retired. I am now 75 years old. I have children, but they are adult children and they no longer live at home. My husband died many years ago.

I am looking for friends (male and female) in my age group, just for companionship, communication, travel, etc. I am not looking for a sexual partner. I am not looking for marriage. I am an independent widow, but I am not looking for a leech, just friends - genuine friends. I am intelligent enough to know them. I am a Christian and I attend church regularly.

Friendship Seeker

Dear Friendship Seeker,

I enjoyed reading your letter. I have tried to hide your identity. I wish you well in your search and will contact you if anyone is interested in becoming your friend.

Pastor