Dear Pastor,

If my man is a good husband and he takes care of me and he is not mean, then he would have access to my body whenever he wants sex. But if he is not playing the role of a good husband, I wouldn't even bother to demand money from him to have sex with me. The shop would be closed until he learns to be a good man.

S

Dear S,

I believe that most women would agree with you. A man shouldn't feel that he can have sex with his woman at any time, but at the same time he refuses to take care of the home and, by extension, take care of her. How can a man expect his wife to be comfortable lying down with him when he does nothing, absolutely nothing to help her? She has to eat and drink and go clean every day. Some men just don't use common sense.

Pastor