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Why yu suh available?!

Dem call ... you always answer

Whatever they need ... you always provide it

You drop your life ... and tek up theirs

Why yu suh willing and able?!

Family

Friends

Exes

Partners

You are forever there for them when many times they are too busy to tend to you!

Why yuh so available?!

Your exes who no longer serve a purpose in your life can call you right now, flirt with you, find out who you deh wid and link tonight roun' 11 fi some pleasure because dem can guarantee seh nuh matter how yuh a play 'hard fi get' you are still constantly available for their usage. Your family, friends or current partner always have you to rescue them, but when you need them, they can't, don't and won't always come to your rescue!

You are officially a welcome mat for their requests and desires.

Why yuh suh available?!

Why yuh suh willing and able?!

Everybody busy until dem want yuh fi suppen and you're so busy being constantly available to dem.

Yuh nuh have nutten else fi duh besides offer yuhself to people?

Mek yuh nuh offer yourself to yourself?

Why not find creative and productive ways to provide for yourself, be there for yourself and spend so much time with yourself that the next time dem call yuh fi sumn regarding them, simply tell them ... you're busy with yourself!

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