Dear Pastor,

I am seeing a married man and we use the condom every time we have sex. I want to have a child for this man but we would have to stop using the condom if he is to get me pregnant. What should I do?

N.W

Dear N.W.,

Why would you want to become pregnant by a married man? You shouldn't even ask me what you should do. Go and find a single man and get married.

Pastor