My boyfriend and I had a big fight last night. He saw a hickey on my neck and he got very furious. I told him it was my friend who put it on me but he didn't believe me. What should I do?

Unnamed

Dear Unnamed,

if your boyfriend trusted you he wouldn't have had to get into a fight with you. Whether he knows it or not, social friends joke around a lot with each other and put hickeys on each other's necks just for fun. So, when you told your boyfriend that it was your friend who did that to you, he should have accepted it and not got into a fight with you.

Some folks love to wear hickeys because they send the message that life is not altogether dead with them, something going on.

Pastor