Dear Pastor,

I am a regular reader of your column. I am 23 years old and I am very worried because my girlfriend and I are about to break up. She is not talking to me because I got her friend pregnant. I didn't intend for it to happen but she came to my house for me to help her do something on the computer and the two of us got carried away and we had sex. Now she is pregnant. she is my girlfriend's friend. She agrees not to tell anybody who got her pregnant but my girlfriend knows. This girl's mother is living abroad and nobody knows that she is pregnant because the foetus is only two months old. She told me that she can do an abortion but I believe that that is murder. If she plans to have the abortion, she will have to do so soon. Pastor, I am worried and need your advice.

G.C

Dear G.C.,

I cannot encourage anyone to have an abortion. What I would encourage her to do is to have her child and give it up for adoption if she doesn't want the baby.

Pastor