Greetings to you in the name of Jesus. I am a 19- year-old young lady. I am involved with a man who lives in Manchester. He is thirteen years my senior. I have known him for three months. He has a baby- mother. We started dating each other for one and a half months. He asked me to have sex with him. At the time when he did, I hadn't had sex with a man for four months. To tell you the truth, I couldn't resist him. Do you think that I made a wrong decision?

Hottie

Dear Hottie,

I hope this man is not going to use you, get you pregnant and leave you on your own. I hope you did not have unprotected sex with him. You have only known this man for three months and he convinced you to have sex with him. I am not attacking you. You claim that you couldn't resist him. I think I understand what you are trying to say, but please be careful. You have been having sex before you met this man but never never forget that if you cannot resist having sex, use the condom.

Pastor