Dear Pastor,

I met a man and have been living with him for the last six years. When I met him, his hygiene was poor. He did not even own a good underpant. I bought some new ones for him and also t-shirts. I used warm water to bathe him, allowed him to lie down and lotioned him. I taught him to use deodorant, cleaned up his place and cooked delicious meals for him. I made him look and smell good.

He is trying to kill me because he has found a woman who is eating him out. She is the woman he loves. I saved my money but he took it away and told me I am not to work anywhere. I have a lot more to say. This man is ungrateful.

G

Dear G,

This man is likely to fall on his own sword. There is a song that says, 'Sorry fi maga dog, maga dog tun round bite yuh'.

You met this man, who had nothing, and the condition under which he lived was very bad.

You took him, cleaned him up, fed him and he is looking like a human being now, and other women have seen him. The silly man doesn't realise had it not been for you, other women would pass and scorn him. He should treat you as a queen.

I don't care what disagreement you might have had. He should still respect you. If he wanted to leave, he could do that in peace and not steal from you. Leave him alone. Use prayer as your weapon of defence. God will take care of you.

Pastor