Dear Pastor,

Most men will always have one foot in and one out in a relationship, because they cannot be satisfied no matter how hard women try to please them. Most men cannot see themselves as a 'one burner', as they call it. One foot in and one foot out means that the relationship is not going anywhere.

J.

Dear J.,

You are generalising. Some men have their feet firmly in their relationship while others do not. Always remember that it is not only the men who are to be blamed when a relationship is not going well. Numerous problems can cause a breakdown in a relationship. And that is why no one should be hasty in condemning those who are having problems. No relationship is perfect. And sometimes couples need professional help.

Pastor