Dear Pastor

My girlfriend only wants us to do anal sex. I told her that I am not interested in anal sex anymore. I suggested that we do oral sex instead. She told me no, she is not interested in that. I told her that I will teach her how to perform oral sex on me. I also told her that my former wife and I always did oral sex. She is a little afraid of my penis. She enjoys feeling my penis and when she does that she gets me very wild.

Her parents are hardly at home, so the both of us can do anything. I can know what her mother tells her daughter but I am a mother, father and a lover all at once. When she is seeing her period I have to help her. Her mother is never around.

Unknown

Dear Unknown

It seems to me that you are much older than this young woman. And even the type of sex that both of you are engaged in might have been introduced to her by you. Now that you are interested in moving on to oral sex, she is objecting to that and you are quite willing to teach her what to do.

You said that your ex-wife and you engaged in oral sex. So, what you are trying to say is that because your former wife did it with you, it is no big thing if this young woman consents to it.

Sir, you don't have any good intention towards this young woman. You have mentioned certain information in your letter which I have deleted. I suggest that you stop behaving as if all this girl is good for is to have sex with you. She is a young girl and she needs guidance. I am sure that her parents would be shocked to know that you are having sex with their daughter.

Seek a woman who is not a baby (and you know why I have used the word baby), establish a good relationship with her and stop taking advantage of this young girl.

Pastor