Dear Pastor,

Every time I am having sex with my girlfriend, she is always laughing. I always ask her why she is laughing and she can never give me a good answer. When I had sex with her for the first time, I thought she was just enjoying it, but we have known each other for six months now and she is always laughing. I asked her one night if it is because she was enjoying it, and she said she felt good, so I put on the pressure on her and she was still laughing.

I asked my sister why a woman would laugh all the time when having sex, and she told me that if I was doing something, my girlfriend wouldn't laugh, she would groan. My sister said she believes the girl is mocking me because she is not feeling anything. Why do you think she laughs during sex? Do you think that it might be because I am too small for her and she is not feeling anything?

E.G.

Dear E.G.,

It is not unusual for a couple to laugh during sex. Sometimes something funny may happen and they have a good laugh. But to constantly laugh during sexual intercourse is unusual. This young woman probably laughs because you aren't a good lover. Perhaps she is only having sex with you because she feels that she is under obligation to do so. Perhaps you are giving her lots of money. But she is not enjoying her time with you at all. Perhaps she is only mocking you.

Sometimes when couples are doing different positions, they laugh about it. It is hard for you to know what is going on because this young woman is not telling you the truth. I do not know why she laughs all the time. But I would not be surprised if she is laughing at you and not because she is delighted to have you as her man.

Pastor