Dear Pastor,

I am a 16-year-old and I am having a problem. I am in a high school and there is a female teacher I like very much. Almost all the guys are in the same position as me. Pastor, she dresses neatly and she is very sexy. When she stands up to write anything on the board, I can't resist admiring her round and shapely buttocks. And so instead of concentrating on what she is writing, I am concentrating on her body. Whenever she wears white pants, I love the way she looks in it. Pastor, don't think I am rude and out of order, but many times when she moves around, especially in front of the students, I get an erection. She is a very nice teacher.

H.E

Dear H.E,

Boys go through what you are facing all the time. I believe that this teacher is indeed beautiful and you have not said that she is wearing any tight-fitting clothes. I am sure she is aware that a teacher should be properly attired. It is not unusual for a young man to have a crush on a female teacher. Just as it is normal for a girl to have a crush on a male teacher. The male teacher has to make sure that he keeps his distance from his female students and by that I mean everything he does should be strictly professional and above board. That should also be true of the female teacher. She ought to be aware that guys your age are highly sexual. Some of you are at the very peek of your sexual drive. But such sexual drive or sexual appetite has to be controlled.

Therefore, the relationship should never be sexual and nothing said in the classroom should be understood in a personal manner or way. You have to bear in mind, young man, that although you admire your teacher, she is not there seeking your attention in a sexual way.

Whatever you have in your mind about this teacher, you would have to keep it in your heart and never let it out. And try not to be alone with the teacher. Sometimes it is good when a teacher knows that a student likes him/her. Knowing can help the teacher to be extremely careful how he/she relates to the student. On the other hand, a teacher may pass on that information to others and cause great embarrassment to the student.

If you are living in the same house with your father, you might want to share your feelings towards your teacher with him. If your pastor is a male, you may share your feelings about the teacher with him. When you are in school, try your best to concentrate on your schoolwork and not on your teacher's body. Remember your future is at stake.

Pastor