Dear Pastor,

I am living with my boyfriend for the past 11 years, and all of a sudden, he stopped sleeping with me and he is sleeping with our 15-year-old daughter.

Please give your advice.

N.L.

Dear N.L.,

Confront this man in the presence of your 15-year-old daughter and ask both of them why they are sleeping together. Tell him if he is not willing to sleep with you, he should sleep on the couch or somewhere else, but not on the same bed with his daughter. If he insists that he will sleep in her bed, tell her not to sleep in there with him.

Pastor