Dear Pastor,

I was living with a guy who told me that he loved me and he wanted me in his life. So we started living together and he got me pregnant. I did everything for that guy. When he became ill, I treated him well. I cooked delicious meals, bathed him and brought him back to good health. Then suddenly, he started to ill-treat me. He told me dirty words, etc. And he also told me that the child we have together is not his.

J.B.

Dear J.B.,

It seems to me that when these men do not want to support their children, they often deny paternity. My suggestion to you, therefore, is that you take this man to court for child support. If you know you have nothing to hide, just tell the judge the truth and you will receive justice there.

Pastor