Congratulations! You are finally getting married! It seems like everyone around me is getting married, and the big day takes a lot of planning.

The dress, cake, pictures, food and guests, OMG, it's a full-time job trying to put this day together!

You need a perfect wedding day with memories that will last forever.

What about your honeymoon? Have you planned for that? Are you going to leave the first few days of your marriage to chance?

Don't worry, I have got some tips for you to make your honeymoon hot! Remember, your honeymoon will set the tone for the sexy in your marriage, so make it count.

Get some sleep: Now the festivities of the wedding are over, and you are finally in the hotel after a long flight or drive, you are exhausted.

Don't be afraid to crash and get some sleep. You will be well rested and ready to consummate your union in a few hours.

Role play: You would have packed all your gear (costumes, blindfolds, etc.) to make this honeymoon memorable, so don't be afraid to use them. Assume a new character and play along, play cops and robbers and make sure no crime goes unpunished.

Be a tease: Even when doing something seemingly innocent, like having breakfast, tease your new spouse until food is no longer the most important desire. Don't be afraid to eat the food from your bodies, you get the best of both worlds, nutrition and pleasure.

Use your tongue: You can tie your hands together, or keep them firmly in place behind you because you will not need them. Arouse, caress, please, your new spouse with just your tongue - give him/her a real tongue lashing.

Get out of the bed: You are in a fabulous hotel with all the splendour and amenities, you are finally legally married, so get out of the bed and make love on your balcony, or in the pool or have some sex on the beach (not the beverage). Use the bed to sleep in when you get tired from all the pleasure.

Cuddle: Take the time to wrap up in each other's essence and talk. Whatever you choose to discuss: your past journey, the one you are about to take, your hopes and dreams, or you can just be, this is something that will serve to solidify your bond as a couple and increase your intimacy.

Go on an excursion: Many hotels offer tours and activities for couples on their honeymoon, do one. It will up the fun factor and give you great memories together.

After the emotional roller coaster of planning your wedding, actually getting married, the honeymoon is the icing on the cake, so make sure you have fun. This is a time for you and your new spouse to really revel in the commitment you have made with each other. What better way to do that than to solidify the level of intimacy with each other? Do not put too much pressure on yourself to meet any unrealistic expectations on your honeymoon instead, just relax and enjoy each other: mind, body and soul.

Have fun and stay sexy!

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Question

Dear Dr Sexy,

I am so annoyed! It seems like men nowadays don't have any idea how to give a compliment. I'm walking down the road and a random guy says, "yuh front fat eeh?"

Am I supposed to respond to that?

It 's so frustrating because I am a single woman and these are the men I have to choose from! Dr Sexy, please, help!

Diana, Braeton

Dear Diana,

I can certainly understand how you feel. I get some of these 'compliments' myself. I wouldn't worry about trying to choose a man from this bunch.

Instead, join a new group or start a new hobby and meet some different people.

Interest in a specific subject will be the common ground you need to start your connection.

Don't allow this to discourage you, you can still find love out there.

Good luck and stay sexy,

Dr Sexy