I am in love with a married man. He told me he has his wife but I still forced myself on to to him. We had sex one time in which he told me he regretted doing so and he made the biggest mistake in his life. Pastor, I am living with another man and he told me that I can never replace his wife. What should I do?

C.W.

Dear C.W.,

What are you really seeking? Is it love or something else? This married man with whom you had sex regretted doing so and he told you that he made a big mistake. You have been living with another married man. Where is his wife? Is she abroad? Whatever is going on here, he too doesn't want you. He told you, you could never replace his wife. What he is trying to say to you is that you should not hang around because he will not give up his wife for you. These guys are not fooling you. They are trying to tell you that you should not try to hang on. You should find a single man with whom you might have a future. Perhaps these men do not mean to insult you. It is their way to tell you not to waste your time with them.

Pastor