Dear Pastor,

I know a man who came home and caught his wife in his bed having sex with a young man. The man sat there and watched them until they were finished. When they were finished, the guy put on his clothes. And when he saw the man, he ran. The husband told his wife to go and have a bath because he wanted to get his time with her. He did not quarrel with his wife. He had his firearm with him and the woman was there for a while with him until she was able to get away. I don't know if she is dead or alive.

G.

Dear G.,

I would have loved to hear more about this story. If what you have written is true, then I could only say that this man could have killed both his wife and her boyfriend. He exercised control. These types of risks people should never take.

Pastor