I am from Ocho Rios and I am having a problem with my boyfriend. I want you to tell me what to do. Whenever my phone rings, my boyfriend wants to know who is calling. And if it is a man, he will beat me and threaten that he will kill me if I am giving him 'bun'.

I want to leave him but I am afraid.

Unnamed

Dear ..,

You should report this man to the police and leave him. You should not allow his threats to deter you from leaving him. A man who abuses his woman by beating her is a fool, because what he fails to understand is that an intelligent woman does not want to live with an abusive man because she will never be happy.

Pastor