Blessings on you, pastor. I am asking you for some advice on my relationship. I have been living with a man for six years and now I want to attend church. He said he is not leaving me and he is not ready to get married to me. What should I do? He doesn't want to leave my house. The police came to the house and told him to leave, but instead, they had to leave him there.

S.T.

Dear S.T.,

This man is not abusing you. You want him to either marry you or leave. Although you have not said it, I rather suspect that this man has contributed to the building of your house and he is aware that if you want him out, he is entitled to a certain amount of money, etc. I suggest that you consult a lawyer. You cannot force him to marry you, but you can give him what he is entitled to have if you want him out of your life.

Pastor