Dear Pastor,

I am 22 and I have been with three guys: one for four years, the other for six years and the other for two years. I have not made up my mind which one to settle down with as yet. I keep them together because my body is in shape and I treat them well, and that's it.

C.B.

Dear C.B.,

You should not be intimate with three different men at the same time and each believing that he is your man. You are playing a dangerous game. You seem to be good at it. You are 22 and you might believe that having three different boyfriends is fun, especially if they are taking care of you financially. The truth is, if you are taking money from these, men you are acting like a prostitute. So stick with one man.

Pastor