Dear Pastor,

I am writing to you to find out why this American girl just all of a sudden gave up on me. I have been incarcerated for years, but she knows that I am about to get out in 2015. She told me she was getting married and I took it for a joke, until recently she sent me a picture showing me that she is pregnant and she was chilling with a dude.

I am from America, but my parents were born and raised in Jamaica. Now, I have given up on all American women. I only want to be with Jamaican women. I should have done that from way back, but I wasn't thinking or listening to my family. That girl hurt me to my heart because I thought we had something going before I got locked up. I thought she was going to be my first wife and have my first child, but I was wrong. Can you help me find a few Jamaican women to write as pen pals?

D.F., USA

Dear D.F.,

This lady you were going with before you went to prison couldn't wait on you any longer, so she found herself a man and she told you about it. You didn't believe her, so she sent you a photograph to show you that she was carrying the man's baby. You shouldn't hold that against her. Your incarceration probably caused her to change her mind about the relationship she was having with you. So, don't hold that against her. Some relationships work and some don't. And not many women wait on men after they have been in prison.

You say that you are going to be out of prison in 2015. What can you offer a Jamaican woman? Jamaican women need just as much as the American women. So please do not think that they are any different when it comes to material things. I wish you had said why you are in prison. Nevertheless, I wish you well.

Pastor