Dear Pastor,

I don't think a man can spite a woman because a woman has more power over the man. If my husband doesn't want to have sex with me and he says he is tired, I just go to the bathroom and fix up myself and put on a sexy nightgown with my private part showing.

Then I would go into the room and turn on the light and make sure that he is looking.

Then I would drop something and then pick it up. And then he gets over his tiredness right away and I get what my body wants from him.

M.M.

Dear M.M.,

Perhaps some women reading this column would try the method you have used to get their husbands to make love to them when their husbands are reluctant.

On the other hand, I suppose that if a man is genuinely tired, exposing yourself to him would not move him. I don't know for sure, I am only guessing.

Pastor