Dear Pastor,

Sorry to say this, but if I should find out that my spouse is cheating on me, then I would leave immediately because that means that he does not believe that I am enough for him. I will never trust him again, so it would not make sense staying with him. I would rather be alone.

W.

Dear W.,

Would you really leave your man for having an affair once? Would you not even consider forgiving him and having both of you go for professional help?

I understand what you are saying. But what if your man is penitent and asks you for a second chance, would you not consider doing so?

Pastor