Dear Pastor,

I have a boyfriend. He is attending the same school with me and he has three other male friends and they all love me. And I am confused because they all want to have sex with me. I don't want to have sex with them and I don't want to stop talking to them.

Can you please give me your advice?

T.S.

Dear T.S.,

You have to be very careful with these guys. You should make sure you are not alone with them. They may gang-rape you. I have to say so because from time to time when girls insist that they won't have sex, guys plan with each other to rape them. You should also let your guidance counsellor at your school know that these guys have been harassing you for sex. You should also tell your parents about these guys.

Please understand that you should not trust any man who does not take no for an answer.

Pastor