Dear Pastor,

I am 25 and in love with a married woman. I went to her house to do some painting, and while I was climbing up on the ladder, I saw this woman in her room without any clothes on exercising. When she looked around, she saw me. She did not stop and I almost fell off the ladder. From that day, I fell in love with her. She did not say anything to me that day, but the following day she asked me if I was peeping at her, and I told her that I was only climbing up on the ladder to do the work. She told me that it was all right and she didn't tell her husband that I saw her naked because he would blame her for not pulling the curtains. She asked me if I liked what I saw, and I bowed my head and didn't answer. She told me that she could show me more if I was interested.

Offered me sex

Pastor, she is married to a very powerful man. But she treated me very well during the time I worked there. I got lunch with desert. And the last day when I was on the job, she offered me sex. I was afraid, but I took the chance. Now she calls me every day. She knows that I have a girlfriend and two children. She gave me gifts for the children. She travels and she promised to help me to get a visa.

I am not a run-around guy, and she is the first married woman I have ever had sex with, but I am afraid of her husband because I know he has a licensed firearm. This woman doesn't have any children and she is beautiful. Sometimes when I am making love with my girlfriend, my mind is on her.

Pastor, please advise me.

L.V.

Dear L.V.,

I am going to beg you to run from trouble. Run as fast as you can. Run faster than Bolt. Don't go back to that woman's house. You have put yourself into trouble and you can get out of it by not going back there. Don't send her text messages or return her calls when she calls you.

I want you to know that I believe you. You did not wilfully peep at her. Lots of men who clean windows in high-rise buildings abroad from time to time see women in their rooms naked. This woman should have been more careful knowing that you were around. But perhaps she wanted you to see her in the nude because from the very day you got there, she might have liked you. If you continue to play around with this woman, her husband will find out, and she is likely to lie on you, and her husband might believe her, and I don't have to say the rest. So again, I beg you, run from trouble!

Pastor