Have you ever thought about exploring bondage? Does the thought of being completely helpless to your partner as they pleasure your body appeal to you?

Many persons are intrigued and terrified with bondage. Most envision a dark room with someone dressed head-to-toe in leather with handcuffs and a whip ready to inflict pain on any subject who happens to be unfortunate enough to find themselves in their den of darkness.

While this image is true for some forms of bondage, in the reality of your bedroom, this scene does not have to be the case.

If you are interested in trying bondage, there are some things that you must do to ensure a pleasurable experience.

Before you even consider bondage, ensure that you have a solid and trusting relationship with your partner. This is not an activity for couples in trouble. It is important to recognise certain safety precautions as bondage is an activity that can go from fun to fatal if it's not done properly. Here are some guidelines for a fun, safe bondage experience.

1. Discuss with your partner your desires and expectations. Really be honest and express how you feel about being bound. State your limitations and deal breakers, it is important that you both respect each other's feelings before you even start.

2. Create a SAFE WORD. This word should be something that will stand out during the activities and when it is used, everything MUST stop.

3. Never tie anything around your partner's neck.

4. Never leave someone who's tied up unattended, even for a short period of time.

5. The rules for safe sex still apply so observe all the necessary safety precautions.

While your partner is bound, take the time to tease, arouse and please him/her. Use different items to create stimulation - feather, ice, blindfold, your fingers, even a toy. Remember your ultimate goal is to heighten the pleasure experience and have fun with each other. It is important to note that the person who is bound is really the one in charge because the moment he/she is no longer having fun, everything must stop, so pay close attention to his/ her responses and listen for the safe word.

Bondage can be fun if you and your partner are open and honest with each other. This activity requires trust and respect on both your parts. Remember communication is important to the success of any relationship so please ensure that you and your partner are on the same page. So go, get tied up, get your freak on and enjoy every minute of it.

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