Dear Pastor,

Having faith is one thing but in some situations you have to see or touch in order to believe. I have been to Thailand where you can find some of the most beautiful women, but many Thailand people who look like women are actually men, or 'lady boys', as they are called. It can be very hard to decipher who is male and who is female, especially since Asians have little or no body hair, and the men can look very feminine.

There is a guy I know who was admiring a Chinese person he thought was a girl and went up to chat with her. The person said to him, "I am not what you think I am," and put my friend's hand on 'her' crotch, only for my friend to feel a penis.

C.

Dear C.,

One can just imagine how shocked your friend must have felt. One can say not everything one sees is real. I believe a man should look like a man and a woman should look like a woman. Unfortunately, not everybody sees life that way.

Pastor