Dear Pastor,

Keep up the good work. I want women to know that the same way we have our profession as teachers, bankers, nurses, etc. there are some professional men who specialise in stealing women's money. There are qualified men who have lost their jobs and they now prey on young women to give them money.

I was a victim when I was a former general manager of a company. I met a man who claimed that he was a businessman and he wanted me to invest. I was preparing to end our relationship, but I went to the doctor and he told me that I was pregnant and I was bleeding. I was admitted to hospital and I had a miscarriage.

The man did not want the baby, so thank God I lost it. This man wanted my land title and he also wanted me to give him a loan, so I dumped him and I later found out that he had a girlfriend at an apartment close to mine and he is living with his baby mother on campus. If I sue him for my money or report his threat as a staff member, I could lose my job. He is wicked.

Ex-girlfriend

Dear Ex-girlfriend,

If you can prove that you gave this man a loan and he should have paid you back at a certain time, you shouldn't be afraid to demand your money from him or even take him to court to get back your money.

The experience you are sharing with the readers is similar to other girls. There are men who have indeed preyed on young professional women. Some have got them to pay for just about everything. Others have preyed on older women. In fact, some senior citizens like to associate themselves with much younger men. And when their children or even their peers warn them, they refused to listen.

Some older women have even bought their much younger boyfriends cars and pay the rent for their apartments. It seems as if the older some women become is the more they want men, especially younger men.

I am glad that your eyes were open before it was too late. Nevertheless, demand from this man what he owes you.

Pastor