Dear Pastor,

Greetings to you and your staff for doing such a great job, I am a 35-year-old man and I am also a twin. I have a twin sister who has a pair of twins also. She is living in St Maarten.

Pastor, my biggest problem is that I cannot get a woman pregnant and settle down with her. I have been trying for 17 years now. Do you know of any doctor you can recommend for me to see as soon as possible?

I live at my own house and I have never paid rent. I have a permanent job at a security company. I have only lived with a woman once. I don't know what is wrong, but I only want twins and to get married. Please pray for me and my family. And I hope you will live to see many more years.

D.M., Clarendon

Dear D.M.,

What you are saying is that you want to impregnate a woman before you get married to her and she must bear twins. That is nonsense. You will continue to feel frustrated until you change your attitude about family life. Because you are a twin and your twin sister had twins, does not mean that you will father twins.

I suggest that you find yourself a woman that you love and marry her and pray that the good Lord will enable you to impregnate her.

Check with your family doctor and put your concerns before him/her and he/she would advise you appropriately.

Pastor