I am a 22-year-old young woman from St James and I am having a problem with my boyfriend who is 39. He lives in Canada. The problem is, we hardly communicate. Whenever he is in Jamaica, I only see him seven-nine nights out of a one-month vacation, yet he stays in St James at his dad's house. most of the time he is in Westmoreland. He tells me his friends in Westmoreland are males. At no time has he taken me out or introduced me to his friends.

Whenever I tell him to come and meet my friends, he refuses to do so. I have been in this relationship for five years and we have an eight-month-old son together.

Frustrated Baby Mother

Dear Frustrated Babymother,

This man is not showing any interest in you, neither in his son. It is time for you to realise that he has been lying to you for a long time. He has no interest in building a future with you. my suggestion is that you learn to build your life without him and encourage him to support his child.

Pastor