Dear Pastor,

I am 51 years old and my wife is always complaining about sex. She is threatening that if I can't improve in that area she is going to go out and do it with one of my friends. She even named the man. I thought she was not serious, but I have been observing that she is talking on the telephone to this man often.

Pastor, I suffer from diabetes and it is very bad. So, sometimes, I don't have a strong erection. These days we are always fussing. If she cheats on me, I wouldn't leave her because she is 10 years younger and she wants what I am not able to give her.

I try my very best to satisfy her in different ways, but she likes the regular way. My life is not happy.

O.J.

Dear O.J.,

Your wife has warned you that she will cheat. When a woman says that to a man, he should not take her lightly or ignore her. She will do exactly what she says. I am sure you have gone to the doctor and he has tried to help. These days a man who is suffering from impotence can receive lots of help and able to function sexually. Ask your wife to bear with you and accompany you to see a urologist.

Pastor