Dear Pastor,

My girlfriend is living and working in Kingston and I am living and working in the 'country'. We hardly see each other, but we communicate by phone. I am faithful to her. I stay away from all other girls because I love her. She is sexually exposed.

Do you think she cheats on me?

Concerned Boyfriend

Dear Concerned Boyfriend,

I cannot tell whether your girlfriend would remain faithful to you or cheat. And I do not fully understand what you mean when you say that your girlfriend is sexually exposed. Stop worrying yourself about whether she would be faithful or unfaithful to you. You cannot watch a woman.

A woman can be faithful if she wants to be, and if she does not want to be, she will cheat. So, don't worry.

Pastor