Dear Pastor,

I am dating a medical doctor and I am going through a lot. Regardless of what I do for him, he is not pleased and I am always wrong. This man is driving me to the edge now.

He is even trying to have sex with my best friend and I found out about it. I am planning to outsmart him. He is like ticks, investigates everything and he watches me. I even asked him if he is feeling insecure.

It seems as if he has tied me to him and the only way to get away from him is by changing my number.

I need your advice.

Unhappy Girlfriend

Dear Unhappy Girlfriend,

Medical doctors are no different from other men when it comes to their girlfriends or wives. Some are trusting, others are not. Some are respectful, others are not. Some make good husbands, others don't. Some are liberal in giving women money, others are mean.

Evidently, this man believes that he has good reasons for not trusting you. Therefore, if you believe that you are wasting your time with him, tell him that you are willing to end the relationship with him and move on. Then you could change your telephone number.

Before I go, let me warn you. If your friend told you that this man asked her for sex, she may or may not be speaking the truth. So, you should not pay much attention to what she said because you do not have any proof.

Pastor