Dear Pastor,

I am 18 and I am dating a guy who is 21. We have been together since 2008. I love him so much but I am very jealous of him. I do not trust him. I can't prove that he has another girl, but I feel that he is giving me 'bun', even though nobody has said it to me.

Sometimes he acts as if he is a different person, but not for long. He told me that he trusts me, but I don't think so. Perhaps he is saying so because he wants me to love him and don't think about any other man, just the both of us.

Jealous Girlfriend

Dear Jealous Girlfriend,

You don't have any reasons to be jealous. People who are jealous don't have confidence in their lovers and often in themselves. It is never good to accuse your lover of cheating when you have no proof. If you don't learn to trust your boyfriend, the friendship would not develop into a very healthy relationship.

Pastor