Dear Pastor,

I am married and my husband is 10 years my senior. My husband and I dated for four years prior to our marriage. At the time we started dating, I was 23 and he was 33. I felt that I needed someone that I could relate to. I have always been very mature for my age. I was never into the fast living of others of my age group. My husband and I have always had similar interests. He has always been very responsible and loving towards me and my daughter that I had prior to our dating.

Older men can open the world to younger women. They can help us appreciate life from a wiser perspective. By the way, I love your show. I listen every night.

N.P., California, USA

Dear N.P.,

You have been fortunate to have a good husband. He is a responsible man and he has treated you well. I hope you would teach your daughter to honour this man because he has not only being a good husband to you, but also a father to your daughter.

Pastor