Dear Pastor,

I have issues in my marriage and they caused my marriage to break up. My husband and I have been separated for five years but we are not divorced. I became so devastated when this happened. However, when I listen to other people, I realise they are in worse situations than I am. Your show has helped me to recuperate. You are a great man. I have been listening to your show since 2006 and have not stopped.

Married Woman

Dear Married Woman,

You have been separated from your husband for five years. It appears that there is no room for reconciliation. I, therefore, suggest you get a divorce and set yourself free. It would bring closure to that period of your life and enable you to make a fresh start.

Pastor