Dear Pastor,

I am a 24-year-old Christian woman. I am not in a relationship, due to communication and trust. Most of all, this person has to be Christ-centered.

Cheating is a bad thing. No decent man or woman would like to know they have a lover who goes to bed here and there with everyone. Look at the heartache and pain it causes in relationships. All I can say is happiness really counts and cheating will hinder this.

As for my experience with the opposite sex, I have proven that men are expecting women to be happy even when infidelity is present. They need to understand that for women who need true happiness, all it requires is for men to make their women happy and the women will do their utmost in ensuring the men are happy.

Pastor, I am just speaking from what I know and what I truly believe in.

O.D.

Dear O.D.,

You have spoken from personal experience and observation. Therefore, I need not comment.

Pastor