Dear Pastor,

Sometimes when men say that they are tired, a woman has to wonder if they are speaking the truth. Sometimes, they are not always speaking the truth. They have other women and are getting the goodies that they need from these women.

Can a man be tired for one month straight and say he doesn't want sex? I doubt it. The tiredness is just an excuse to cover something up.

R.A.

Dear R.A.,

Evidently, you do not believe that men can be genuinely tired. I know that men can play tricks on women. But there are times when men are speaking the truth and women should learn that they must give their men time to rest. Sometimes women are tired too and they need time to rest. So it is not on every occasion men are using tiredness as an excuse for not wanting to have sex.

Pastor