I really want to have sex. The urge is driving me crazy but I don't want sex alone. I want more than sex. I have been turned on by a man who said he wanted to do oral sex with me. The thought is very arousing, and I have thought about it a lot but I refused to do so. I want a real relationship and I know deep down that I am not gay.

I have tried ladies my age, but I have had no luck. The next option was to try young girls but all they wanted was money. I am thinking of getting with a guy to have sex with him to cure my sexual urges, but not for a relationship because I am not gay.

Confused Man

Dear Confused Man,

I consider you a liar. You claim that you don't trust woman, neither are you gay and that you have decided not to have sex at all. If you do not trust women, why are you seeking one. And if you are not gay, why are you so turned on by the offer a gay man has made to you. Your letter makes me want to vomit.

Pastor